It's so hard teaching my young children that they are not the center of the universe.  However, as they gradually learn this difficult lesson, I have also learned that I am no longer their center of the universe either.  I dropped off my son at a winter camp today and I assured him that I will pick him up early so that I can make sure he likes the camp.  He insisted that I pick him up on time like the rest of the older kids.  I was heartbroken yet proud at the same time.  


The American Association of Pediatrics and other authoritative entities mentioned that kids entering elementary school begin to expand and focus on their school/friendship circles.  Unfortunately, despite my volunteer efforts at the school, I am just a minor part of his school/friendship circles.  Knowing that he is confident makes me happy but also leaves a feeling of emptiness inside of me.  I guess that is why we have another child. Unfortunately for me, I feel that the affection/love of each child cannot be substituted or replaced.  I can only look at my younger one and say, don't grow so fast.  But you can't stop time.